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Topic: Not so good news March 15 2012 update

Maasdam
First Class Passenger
Member # 3858

posted 08-10-2011 01:32 AM

Yesterday, I got the most terrible news in my life I was diagnosed with the most aggressive form of bowel Canser, it spread to my liver and lungs, and it is not curable. In time I will loose the battle. There are a view options to try the expend my life and next Thursday a team of specialist of the Hospital and the Canser centre will make a plan fore me and this will presented to me next Monday. Then I must make a dissension what I want and not want. You know I go fore the best possible alternative and want to life as long as possible BUT not to every price. Maybe not time to talk about it But I'm happy that I'm Dutch and we in The Netherlands have the Euthanasia laws. It give me great personal comfort that I don't need to suffer when time is there. But fore now I'm in a fighting mode and want to battle the Canser in me. That bravely said I'm very very sad and afraid fore things to come.

I will try to post and be around on Cruise Talk as long as possible and enjoy all you're post.

Ben.

[ 03-15-2012: Message edited by: Maasdam ]

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dmwnc1
Cruise Director
Member # 3785

posted 08-10-2011 03:25 AM

Ben, my heartfelt love and prayers go out to you. I hope you have family and loved ones surrounding you to help in your decisions and to comfort you during this difficult time. I can't imagine what you are going through but please know that all of us here at Cruise Talk, no matter of our past differences, care and love you. God bless you and keep you always.

Your friend,

David Walker
Clarksburg, WV

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Linerrich
First Class Passenger
Member # 4864

posted 08-10-2011 05:41 AM

Ben, so very sorry to hear about your situation, but as David has said, please know that there are many people who care about you and they are thinking of you and praying for you. May you take some comfort and strength from that, for your battle.

Rich

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joe at travelpage
Administrator
Member # 622

posted 08-10-2011 08:55 AM

Ben,

So sorry to hear this news but thank you for taking the time to share your difficult situation with us. You are a valuable member of the forum and a friend to many. Please know that many of us are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

Joe

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Neil - Ex P & O & PRINCESS CRUISES
First Class Passenger
Member # 5641

posted 08-10-2011 09:42 AM

Email Neil - Ex P & O & PRINCESS CRUISES

Hi Ben

I know we did not always agree but I am really very sorry to read the news you have posted today.

My thoughts will be with you, your family and friends and I look forward to seeing you on line as long as the situation permits.

Regards

Neil

Manager, ' cruisingtalk ' website

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Malcolm @ cruisepage
Cruise Director
Member # 301

posted 08-10-2011 09:57 AM

Ben, words almost fail me! I am so sorry.

I have enjoyed your posts in the past and I will enjoy the many yet to come.

(Time for a cruise between treatment?)

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Maasdam
First Class Passenger
Member # 3858

posted 08-10-2011 11:02 AM

My dear friends thank you so much fore you're kind words and prayers. It give me strength to battle the cancer.

Greetings Ben.

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Garnett
First Class Passenger
Member # 6346

posted 08-10-2011 11:08 AM

Hi Ben,

I know you don't know me as I've been a "lurker" here on the board for several years.

I rarely post, but after reading your difficult and heartfelt message, I felt compelled to let you know that God loves you and wants the best for you. I hope you will allow me the honor of praying for your health, comfort, and strength in the coming days.

God Bless you!

Garnett

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desirod7
First Class Passenger
Member # 1626

posted 08-10-2011 12:38 PM

Ben, I am very sorry and wish you the best in this unimaginable time of crisis.

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Johan
First Class Passenger
Member # 4458

posted 08-10-2011 03:23 PM

Ben
this is most terrible news.
I wish you great strenght and courage in these very difficult times.
Goede moed !
J

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NAL
First Class Passenger
Member # 1102

posted 08-10-2011 04:00 PM

Ben....please know that many here have known you for a long time and we wish you well in your battle. Keep up the good fight, and we will keep you in our hearts and prayers.

Warmest regards, NAL

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eroller
First Class Passenger
Member # 1649

posted 08-10-2011 04:32 PM

Heart wrenching Ben. I'm so sorry to hear this. Please know you have my support and positive thoughts & wishes, and I'm sure those of your entire extended family on CT as well.

If you can, please keep us all updated. My fingers are crossed that maybe some good news will come next Monday in the form of a viable treatment plan.

Ernie

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rem-dk
First Class Passenger
Member # 5121

posted 08-10-2011 04:49 PM

I am very sorry to hear these sad news. It is not easy to find the words just now, but my best wishes for You.

sincerely René.

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PamM
Cruise Director
Member # 2127

posted 08-10-2011 06:18 PM

I just don't know what to say Ben

it brings tears to the eyes reading your post and all the responses. Fingers crossed for Monday; Fight and fight, be very brave, you may still be able to win the battle. My thoughts are with you and all your family and friends. You are such a lovely kind and generous person; I often think of the day we had in Rotterdam; keep the spirits up even when it may be hard to do so

Pam

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Frosty 4
First Class Passenger
Member # 5826

posted 08-10-2011 07:23 PM

Todays evening news brings new hope for cancer victims. Testing was done on some that had Leukemia. 3 showed vast improvememt. The other in the test also responded well to treatment.
These findings will be tried on others with different types of cancer.
My brother has finished Kemo ( was give 6mo to 1 yr.) He's fighting and has it pretty much under control. Over a year now.
Be tough,attitude is everything!!!
Frosty 4

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Cunard Fan
First Class Passenger
Member # 7530

posted 08-10-2011 08:13 PM

I know we haven't always agreed on here Ben, but I can't tell you how sad this makes me. I can't imagine your pain, but please know that I and everyone else here on CT is sending you and your loved ones, our love and best wishes. We are all here for you! Good luck my friend! Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers, and hoping for some good news on Monday!

-Mark

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Cam J
First Class Passenger
Member # 24617

posted 08-10-2011 08:14 PM

Ben, I am so sorry to hear this most terrible news. I can't imagine the anguish and the fear you must be going through right now, my thoughts and prayers go out to you Ben.

Take Care. Stay strong.

Cam J

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jeremya
First Class Passenger
Member # 5699

posted 08-10-2011 10:18 PM

Ben,

What can I say other than what has been said already. I am sorry for your news and diagnosis. I send my thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

I guess its time to break out that bucket list. No better time than the present. Stay strong and fight. Know that I will be keeping an eye out for your updates.

I wish you the best.

Jeremy

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Tim Agg
First Class Passenger
Member # 3185

posted 08-11-2011 01:09 AM

keep fighting! - and keep writing.

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rustaveli
First Class Passenger
Member # 1708

posted 08-11-2011 02:24 AM

Ben, I hugs You so strong!
and stay strong as You are..fight!

Christian

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Maasdam
First Class Passenger
Member # 3858

posted 08-11-2011 09:13 AM

Once again thank you fore you're kind words and support. It mean so much to me......

Pam that one day with you and Patsy will always be a special place in my hart.

Ben.

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rustaveli
First Class Passenger
Member # 1708

posted 08-31-2011 09:54 AM

Ben, how are you? we miss You here, hope to hear You soon..
Hugs

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DAMBROSI2
First Class Passenger
Member # 35998

posted 08-31-2011 04:20 PM

Oh no Ben.....not that. (((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))) to you. You've been so wonderful to all of us here. I hope only the best for you. This hurts me to the deepest part of my heart.

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Thad
First Class Passenger
Member # 1224

posted 08-31-2011 05:10 PM

Just saw this Ben, and I am so sorry to hear about your fight with cancer. I wish you the best for as long and as happy a life as possible.

Thad

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lasuvidaboy
First Class Passenger
Member # 4527

posted 08-31-2011 05:28 PM

Ben I just read what is going on and I feel as if someone has kicked me hard in the stomach. Even though we have never met, I do of course feel a strong connection to you w/our love of ships and of course HAL/NASM's history.

I have a friend who has the same cancer and after surgery and radiation he thank God is still with us. I'm sending you all my positive thoughts and prayers. Bruce

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