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traveler101
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posted 11-13-2004 01:13 PM      Profile for traveler101        Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
My wife wants me to wear a tux for formal night. Is this manditory?
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traveler101
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posted 11-13-2004 01:18 PM      Profile for traveler101        Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Just received a most helpful email about this topic I thought I should share here:
Most ships have a formal night and usually a suit is acceptable. However, if you don't wear a tux, sometimes you are treated like a second class citizen. Most guys wear tuxes.

One suggestion is to not rent. I lost precious vacation time on my first cruise because the tux I rented from them on board did not fit. I just purchased one for my cruise coming up.
Good luck and have a great time no matter what your attire!

[ 11-13-2004: Message edited by: Malcolm @ cruisepage ]


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posted 11-13-2004 01:20 PM      Profile for Malcolm @ cruisepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
No a Tux is never mandatory! A dark business suit will do fine, although it is a matter of choice. Experienced male cruisers often opt for the full Tux, newbies the suit.

The bit above that said " if you don't wear a tux, sometimes you are treated like a second class citizen." is rubbish as far as I'm concerned!

Also the bit that says "Most guys wear tuxes" is not always true. It does depend on the ship, but the split between Tux and Suit can be 50-50, sometimes 75%(Tux), 25% (suit).

[ 11-13-2004: Message edited by: Malcolm @ cruisepage ]


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posted 11-13-2004 01:36 PM      Profile for lasuvidaboy     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Malcolm @ cruisepage:
[QB]No a Tux is never mandatory! A dark business suit will do fine, although it is a matter of choice. Experienced male cruisers often opt for the full Tux, newbies the suit.

I agree. Also it depends which cruise line you are on as some are more formal than others. On Carnival or other mass market lines, a good quality dark business suit is fine. On more premium lines such as Crystal, Cunard (grill classes) Holland America etc. a tux is a good choice, but either way you would fit in. You can get great deals on a Tuxedo at most men's stores plus your wife will be pleased to see you dressed up IMO. Have a great cruise!


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posted 11-14-2004 02:13 PM      Profile for Globaliser     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Last night I was at a formal ball - compulsory "black tie" dress code. One member of my group had found a great dinner suit at a charity shop for £8.99.

If you're only going to wear one infrequently, buying one like that could be much cheaper than renting!


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sympatico
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posted 11-14-2004 03:09 PM      Profile for sympatico     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
[QUOTMost ships have a formal night and usually a suit is acceptable. However, if you don't wear a tux, sometimes you are treated like a second class citizen. Most guys wear tuxes.E] [/QUOTE]

As Malcolm said, that's a lot of rubbish. We cruised for many years with another couple and he never wore a tux even though my husband did. He never felt out of place or like a second class citizen.

I know a few men who rent tuxes from the cruise line (namely Holland American Line) and they have been very pleased. If there were any alterations to be made the ship's tailor always took care of this.

What ship/line are you sailing on?

If your wife wants you to wear a tux, better wear one. You may never hear the end of it.


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posted 11-14-2004 03:26 PM      Profile for Willem        Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by traveler101:
My wife wants me to wear a tux for formal night. Is this manditory?

I have had a great advice: dress as you are going to church.


I guess that if you are going to church, you don't go in T-shirt and jeans.


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PamM
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posted 11-14-2004 03:27 PM      Profile for PamM   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by sympatico:
If your wife wants you to wear a tux, better wear one. You may never hear the end of it.

Exactly, no better reason
Pam

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posted 11-14-2004 05:23 PM      Profile for 6263866   Email 6263866   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Well if you have a tux most definetly wear it.
Formal nights aree always my favorite on cruises, the best food is served, people getting their potrait taken. So tuxes are not required but a formal attire is.

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posted 11-15-2004 05:43 AM      Profile for Globaliser     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Willem H. van der Leek:
I have had a great advice: dress as you are going to church.

I guess that if you are going to church, you don't go in T-shirt and jeans.


Depends which church, though - some of the ones I've seen around London make the mind boggle ...

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sympatico
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posted 11-15-2004 05:59 AM      Profile for sympatico     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Globaliser:
Depends which church, though - some of the ones I've seen around London make the mind boggle ...

[ 11-15-2004: Message edited by: Globaliser ]



It's not only London, it's the same everywhere. I cannot believe how some people dress to go to weddings. It boggles my mind.


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posted 11-16-2004 09:08 AM      Profile for Cambodge   Email Cambodge   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I always enjoyed wearing a tux on ship's formal nights. My late wife never looked lovlier than in a long formal gown, and I was happy to play the role of "accessory" to her. There is something elegant about it, standing out for one brief shining moment in a very temporary Camelot. Those "dress-up evenings" were very special to her, and to me.

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posted 11-16-2004 04:51 PM      Profile for RICHARD CHUDY   Email RICHARD CHUDY   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I have never worn a Tux to church
Richard

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Globaliser
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posted 11-16-2004 05:31 PM      Profile for Globaliser     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by RICHARD CHUDY:
I have never worn a Tux to church
Not even for a wedding? Not my idea of what I'd want at any wedding of mine, but sometimes you have to go along with what the bride and groom want.

Mind you, the sort of tuxes I've seen at weddings ...


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posted 11-16-2004 06:11 PM      Profile for Cunardcoll   Author's Homepage   Email Cunardcoll   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Let me tell you this , I never wear a tux in my daily life , just a jacket and tie as part of my uniform but on a cruise there's nothing I like more than wearing a tux and walk around the ship on formal nights , the glamour and style atracts attention (of course I like female attention) and also this , the ladies look fantastic on formal nights (most of them anyway).

Jochen


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posted 11-16-2004 07:35 PM      Profile for RICHARD CHUDY   Email RICHARD CHUDY   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I really agree with Cunardcoll, formal nights are really wonderful! Just how often do we get to dress in formal-wear at home on dry land. For me almost never. So I do enjoy a Tux on formal nights and man do I look good!! For someone that's older than dirt the Tux makes me feel younger and yes the ladies do seem to like a man in a Tux lot's more. Why is that?
Richard

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posted 01-22-2005 10:24 AM      Profile for Onno   Author's Homepage   Email Onno   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Do you also need to have that “angry at the whole world” look, or does that automatically happen when you wear those latest creations!
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sympatico
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posted 01-22-2005 10:26 AM      Profile for sympatico     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
You have got to be joking

That is definitely not Formal wear and I doubt you would find any gentleman on this board wearing such a get-up on a formal night.


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posted 01-22-2005 10:48 AM      Profile for desirod7     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Diane,

I did see similar outfits on the QM2 worn by Prada poufs.

Onno,

The models look angry since they are coked out, taking speed and steroids to keep their unattainable physiques that 95% of the world population does not have. Not to mention the torture the botox, dressers and the make up artists wield upon them.

quote:
Originally posted by Onno:
Do you also need to have that “angry at the whole world” look, or does that automatically happen when you wear those latest creations!

[ 01-22-2005: Message edited by: desirod7 ]


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posted 01-22-2005 05:21 PM      Profile for Green     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by desirod7:
Latest from Milan and would work fine on any formal night

'...latest from Milan..' maybe, but I'll take 'the kilt' any day!
- If you have the physique!!!

But back to the original question - Agree with sympatico and Pam. Only once has MOTH travelled without a tux - well partially at least - he had a torn Achilles tendon caste in place - the top half of him was tux clad - the bottom half was black track pants - adjusted to fit with zipper leg to accommodate the caste. We arrived at our table early and left late - no one knew/commented on the liberties we'd taken.


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posted 01-23-2005 03:18 PM      Profile for Tom Burke   Author's Homepage   Email Tom Burke   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
A couple of questions for PamM, if I may:

a) How formal were the formal evenings on Lirica and Armonia? (I'm assuming there *were* formal evenings - if not, please tell me!);

b) amongs the men, what was the tux (dinner jacket) ratio?

and c) for my wife's benefit, what were the ladies wearing?


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posted 01-29-2005 10:19 AM      Profile for Ernst   Author's Homepage   Email Ernst   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Globaliser:
Not even for a wedding? Not my idea of what I'd want at any wedding of mine, but sometimes you have to go along with what the bride and groom want.

Mind you, the sort of tuxes I've seen at weddings ...


Are your weddings in the evening? Isn`t it inapprooriate to ware a tuxedo before 5.00 P.M. ?


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posted 01-29-2005 03:18 PM      Profile for Liner Buff     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Quite strange indeed to wear evening wear during the day. Isn't morning wear (tails, waistcoat and striped trousers) more appropiate?
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quote:
Originally posted by Liner Buff:
Quite strange indeed to wear evening wear during the day. Isn't morning wear (tails, waistcoat and striped trousers) more appropiate?

It definitly is.


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posted 02-13-2005 06:53 PM      Profile for desirod7     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Formal wear appropriate for Carnival

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